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		<title>By: Sean</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4164</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 23:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Answered you in a full post, Julie.  :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Answered you in a full post, Julie.  <img src='http://whiteperil.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4156</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 08:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The way things are going, I expect Nancy Pelosi&#039;s staff will want to meet with couples personally to determine whether they are fit to get married and, if so, what type of punch they should serve at the reception.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way things are going, I expect Nancy Pelosi&#8217;s staff will want to meet with couples personally to determine whether they are fit to get married and, if so, what type of punch they should serve at the reception.</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4140</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:33:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, lots of libertarians do think &quot;getting the government out of the marriage business&quot; would be best.  I&#039;m not sure I disagree with them, though I think the probability that it would happen is vanishingly low.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, lots of libertarians do think &#8220;getting the government out of the marriage business&#8221; would be best.  I&#8217;m not sure I disagree with them, though I think the probability that it would happen is vanishingly low.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4122</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 07:24:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, well, most of the (very few) people who ever read what I wrote were not libertarians.  Most of them would be what we call &quot;liberal&quot; although I hate calling them that because to me that implies some sort of open-mindedness that I don&#039;t think they, in practice, possess.  At one point, I suggested that if marriage was truly no longer relevant to society (as some of my commenters were suggesting, what with all the &quot;heterosexual marriages have a 50% divorce rate,&quot; etc.), perhaps the government should just get entirely out of the marriage-sanctioning business and then SSM would just become a nonissue.  That was not well received, although I would guess most libertarians would prefer that.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, well, most of the (very few) people who ever read what I wrote were not libertarians.  Most of them would be what we call &#8220;liberal&#8221; although I hate calling them that because to me that implies some sort of open-mindedness that I don&#8217;t think they, in practice, possess.  At one point, I suggested that if marriage was truly no longer relevant to society (as some of my commenters were suggesting, what with all the &#8220;heterosexual marriages have a 50% divorce rate,&#8221; etc.), perhaps the government should just get entirely out of the marriage-sanctioning business and then SSM would just become a nonissue.  That was not well received, although I would guess most libertarians would prefer that.</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4097</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No problem, Julie.  What you say about your experience is very interesting, because mine&#039;s generally been almost the opposite.  Not with SSM supporters, certainly---I&#039;ve learned that the minute one of them uses the term &lt;i&gt;self-esteem&lt;/i&gt;, I need to turn away and read something else for the sake of my blood pressure---but with libertarians.  I don&#039;t frequent libertarian message boards and stuff much anymore, but when I used to, they were chock-a-block with debates over the implications of carrying some argument out with perfect, crystalline &quot;consistency.&quot;  I&#039;m very much in favor of paying attention to means as well as ends, and of following one&#039;s arguments through to tease out possible unintended consequences.  But it&#039;s nice to stay within the known universe when doing so.  I believe my pal Eric, above, was once privy to a discussion about whether vending machines dispensing automatic weapons should theoretically be permissible on public-school property, or some such balderdash.  You know, pressing contemporary issues.

Glenn Beck looks pretty hairless to me, though I&#039;ve never ogled his televised presence closely enough to be really sure.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No problem, Julie.  What you say about your experience is very interesting, because mine&#8217;s generally been almost the opposite.  Not with SSM supporters, certainly&#8212;I&#8217;ve learned that the minute one of them uses the term <i>self-esteem</i>, I need to turn away and read something else for the sake of my blood pressure&#8212;but with libertarians.  I don&#8217;t frequent libertarian message boards and stuff much anymore, but when I used to, they were chock-a-block with debates over the implications of carrying some argument out with perfect, crystalline &#8220;consistency.&#8221;  I&#8217;m very much in favor of paying attention to means as well as ends, and of following one&#8217;s arguments through to tease out possible unintended consequences.  But it&#8217;s nice to stay within the known universe when doing so.  I believe my pal Eric, above, was once privy to a discussion about whether vending machines dispensing automatic weapons should theoretically be permissible on public-school property, or some such balderdash.  You know, pressing contemporary issues.</p>
<p>Glenn Beck looks pretty hairless to me, though I&#8217;ve never ogled his televised presence closely enough to be really sure.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4096</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 08:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh, believe me, I know!  We hillbillies just can&#039;t quite figure out our best interests.  

I don&#039;t think that&#039;s usually the case, either.  When I&#039;ve made my complaints--rather timidly, because it is so uncool to gripe about Lincoln!--in the company of some very hairy libertarians, some of them have even been shocked that I would raise the point.  OK, maybe not shocked, but startled.  But then, I&#039;ve never been in the room with Glenn Beck (is he a libertarian?  More importantly, is he hirsute?)

Oh...wait...I was at an event with Glenn Beck, now that I think about it.  It was a demolition derby in Rexburg, Idaho.  But it&#039;s not like I talked to him.  Between the gas fumes and the slinging mud, conversation about constitutional principles would have probably been out.

I find that people don&#039;t really get it when one complains about something on principle or complains about the process of something.  If I may digress, that&#039;s related to how I found your blog.  I wrote a long-winded post on my now-defunct blog about how angry the pro-gay-marriage arguments made me.  Not the actual position of being for SSM, just the rhetoric about it.  I can&#039;t really get behind introducing legislation for the purpose of &quot;making me feel normal&quot; or because &quot;we love each other so much.&quot;  As you might expect, I was promptly labeled a bigot and a homophobe.  Having spent most of my life in towns that most gay people flee (except, curiously, Mr. Chavez, our typing teacher), I couldn&#039;t respond with the classic, &quot;But I can&#039;t be a homophobe--look at all my gay friends!&quot;  Yet I felt sure that I wasn&#039;t a homophobe.  So, I googled, looking for kindred spirits who are totally not homophobes but are vexed by the rhetoric.  And, yea, I found you.  So, thank you for providing succor in my hour of need.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, believe me, I know!  We hillbillies just can&#8217;t quite figure out our best interests.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s usually the case, either.  When I&#8217;ve made my complaints&#8211;rather timidly, because it is so uncool to gripe about Lincoln!&#8211;in the company of some very hairy libertarians, some of them have even been shocked that I would raise the point.  OK, maybe not shocked, but startled.  But then, I&#8217;ve never been in the room with Glenn Beck (is he a libertarian?  More importantly, is he hirsute?)</p>
<p>Oh&#8230;wait&#8230;I was at an event with Glenn Beck, now that I think about it.  It was a demolition derby in Rexburg, Idaho.  But it&#8217;s not like I talked to him.  Between the gas fumes and the slinging mud, conversation about constitutional principles would have probably been out.</p>
<p>I find that people don&#8217;t really get it when one complains about something on principle or complains about the process of something.  If I may digress, that&#8217;s related to how I found your blog.  I wrote a long-winded post on my now-defunct blog about how angry the pro-gay-marriage arguments made me.  Not the actual position of being for SSM, just the rhetoric about it.  I can&#8217;t really get behind introducing legislation for the purpose of &#8220;making me feel normal&#8221; or because &#8220;we love each other so much.&#8221;  As you might expect, I was promptly labeled a bigot and a homophobe.  Having spent most of my life in towns that most gay people flee (except, curiously, Mr. Chavez, our typing teacher), I couldn&#8217;t respond with the classic, &#8220;But I can&#8217;t be a homophobe&#8211;look at all my gay friends!&#8221;  Yet I felt sure that I wasn&#8217;t a homophobe.  So, I googled, looking for kindred spirits who are totally not homophobes but are vexed by the rhetoric.  And, yea, I found you.  So, thank you for providing succor in my hour of need.</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4094</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 22:15:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I certainly hope not.  I would never in a million years tell a man to shave his chest, and I&#039;m pretty sure I count as a libertarian.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I certainly hope not.  I would never in a million years tell a man to shave his chest, and I&#8217;m pretty sure I count as a libertarian.</p>
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		<title>By: Eric Scheie</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4091</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric Scheie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 19:31:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for the link, Sean! But, um, does this mean that I can only become a good libertarian if I shave my chest hair?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the link, Sean! But, um, does this mean that I can only become a good libertarian if I shave my chest hair?</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4089</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 07:38:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Julie, we only boss the rest of you around for your own good.  :)

Seriously, what you&#039;re saying is, in fact, something that I&#039;ve heard more than once, and for good reason: process is important.  And arguments that aren&#039;t exactly the same but are very similar are frequently made over, say, civil-rights legislation or &lt;i&gt;Roe v. Wade&lt;/i&gt;.

What I took Gerson to be saying, though, was that rock-ribbed libertarians are outright &lt;i&gt;dismissive&lt;/i&gt; of Lincoln and his motives, and I don&#039;t think that&#039;s usually the case.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julie, we only boss the rest of you around for your own good.  <img src='http://whiteperil.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Seriously, what you&#8217;re saying is, in fact, something that I&#8217;ve heard more than once, and for good reason: process is important.  And arguments that aren&#8217;t exactly the same but are very similar are frequently made over, say, civil-rights legislation or <i>Roe v. Wade</i>.</p>
<p>What I took Gerson to be saying, though, was that rock-ribbed libertarians are outright <i>dismissive</i> of Lincoln and his motives, and I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s usually the case.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://whiteperil.com/2010/02/26/better-man/comment-page-1/#comment-4088</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 06:07:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh, dear.  I believe I have complained in the past that keeping the Union together involved an only semi-legitimate use of executive power.  By which I mean that I understand why it is viewed as legitimate, but to me a social contract doesn&#039;t work if it isn&#039;t essentially voluntary.  Besides, there&#039;s that whole rebelling against tyranny thing, and, honestly, I think the Northeast can be pretty tyrannical.

Hmm.  I don&#039;t have chest hair.  And also, I like Teddy Roosevelt. I do think some of his actions were probably illegitimate uses of executive power, but in the main, I think he used them for good.  I&#039;m so confused.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, dear.  I believe I have complained in the past that keeping the Union together involved an only semi-legitimate use of executive power.  By which I mean that I understand why it is viewed as legitimate, but to me a social contract doesn&#8217;t work if it isn&#8217;t essentially voluntary.  Besides, there&#8217;s that whole rebelling against tyranny thing, and, honestly, I think the Northeast can be pretty tyrannical.</p>
<p>Hmm.  I don&#8217;t have chest hair.  And also, I like Teddy Roosevelt. I do think some of his actions were probably illegitimate uses of executive power, but in the main, I think he used them for good.  I&#8217;m so confused.</p>
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